How can we be both tender and at the same time so aggressive in our nature. Can we be both modern and human? We are a paradox...

Central to our all of assessments is the implied question; “Do we like the life we are living.”

As we are socialized in our families of origin, many people lose this natural-born ability to express what they feel without emotional armor

We do not readily give our identity up. Even if we wanted to, we actually have no clue how to give it up. Thus identity is persistent.

What is "the doing" of listening? An action occurs in which the speaking of a speaker is really understood and not just perceived

Any preconception that I have about what a speaker is saying is an obstruction to actual listening.

Once upon a time, there was a king who ruled a kingdom and who dreamed of knowing everything.

In reality, our ability to see from another point of view than we habitually take opens access to a new realm of possibilities.

Becoming a created self offers a new reality for living life. Observing differently, new assessment becomes possible.

Like most people, you want certainty, predictability, and ease in the situations of life. Instead, you find the opposite.

It is about self-authorship; creating and fulfilling a future through speech and action..self-awareness in body, emotion, & language...

RE-Creation. What you want is to be Re-Created. To be with someone who Re-Creates you!!! To live with Fun and play with people in a "DOING"

One very good way to know reality is to perturbate the world...Inquiry through perturbation will lead to discovery.

An inquiry is not a conversation about the known. Those kinds of conversations might be useful, but they can only repeat known discourses.

It seems that to be authentic, in an inquiry, one must be “all in.” The state of authentic inquiry requires the full self-deployment of ...